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Wednesday, April 2, 2014

To lose balance in love is part of living balanced life

One of my all time favourite quotes from Eat Pray Love. Yes, now I sound like your typical 'girl' quoting this movie. 
While I'm at it I'll just throw in there that I love The Notebook too, that's the only Nicholas Sparks film you'll ever hear me admitting to liking. Gush. Moving along...

What defines love? Or what gives you the right to use that word? 

There are many kinds of love. That of a friend, a lover, a mother, a father, a son, a daughter, a family member, and lets not forget a beloved furry little animal ;-). 

I think the simplest way I can describe that word is to have the utmost purest intentions towards someone. You care about their happiness, you try to think of little things that would please them or put a smile on their face. When they are happy, the world around you shines. The same goes for when they are hurt, your heart hurts for them and you wish for nothing more than to take away their pain. They are on your mind on a regular basis and you hurt the moment you are distant or apart from one another. You believe in their dreams as much as they do, and you want them to strive in everything that they do. You love them for doing the 'right' things and you still love them even when do the 'wrong' things, especially when those wrong things are incredibly annoying, you still wouldn't have it any other way. Their good qualities make up for all of the flaws because you realize no one is perfect but even their imperfections are in fact perfect. Relationships take time, effort, work, and a commitment to one another to last longevity. If you can accomplish those tasks then you're half way there. 

Love is patient, love is pure, love is kind. 

True love never ends. 

Wide Set Eyes

I decided I'm going to dedicate a post entirely to wide set eyes. As a kid, I always knew I looked 'different' from the other girls. I noticed that my face was considerably very round in comparison to most people, my eyes had a large gap (space) or what have you in between them, seemingly a lot further than most people's eyes... Last but not least, why is my face seemingly flat?! I hated how I looked growing up, I always thought I looked ugly compared to the other little girls with long faces and eyes that sat closer in together. Alas, you have to embrace what you've been given! 

I've come a long way since those days and realize my wide set eyes make me unique ;-)

What are wide set eyes? Strangely abnormal space between the average person's eyes for starters, most people don't think much of it but it is in fact a physical deformity. It runs in my family, my grandmother, my mother, my aunt, including myself all have wide set eyes. Most likely when I have children, they too will carry this physical trait. The medical term known for this is ' Hypertelorism' and in some very extreme cases can be quite scary to look at. I suggest for most people not to search this on google. However, lots of factors and abnormalities in the genetic line are a cause of wide set eyes or better known as Hypertelorism. This is where I'd like to use the popular cliche that "Imperfection is beauty" and yes it is. Lets roll with it people! 

If you noticed, all people with wide set eyes actually resemble one another (or in my opinion they do) . They all have a very similar look to them, including round faces, large space between the eyes (of course), and a flat appearing face over all.

These are some well known Celebrities with wide set eyes.

Kate Moss


Miranda Kerr


Amanda Seyfried


Cameron Diaz


Michelle Pfiffer


Shania Twain 


Katherine Zeta Jones


  Hayden Panettiere


Leann Rimes


Julia Stiles


Lindsay Lohan


Nina Dobrev


Victoria Justice 


Lily Cole




I saved a photo of myself for last for comparison of wide set eyes.